Breakup Decoder
You're Not Crazy
You Just Needed the Facts
Drop in your last month of chats to see why it fell apart and exactly how to heal.
Step-by-step, starting today.Join the Early-Access Waitlist
First 50 reports are free — Onboarding starts June 1st, 2025
See What Went Wrong
Decode Your Attachment Style
Attachment Style Snapshot
See you and your ex side-by-side—dismissive, fearful, anxious, secure—so patterns finally click.Toxic-Quote Timeline
Speech-bubble call-outs mark the exact phrases that escalated conflict.Healing Roadmap
A personalized, day-by-day plan crafted for your attachment style and your partner’s, guiding you through 10-minute exercises that calm triggers, close security gaps, and rebuild confidence from the very first day.Privacy, Guaranteed
Your file is encrypted, redacted locally, and auto-deleted after your PDF is generated.
How Breakup Decoder Works — Backed by Relationship Science
✓ Rooted in Attachment Theory – Draws on 50 + years of research into secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful-avoidant patterns.✓ Language-Signal Model – Scores 60 + empirically validated cues (protest phrases, withdrawal cues, proximity bids, breakup language) shown to predict adult bonds and conflict dynamics.✓ Conversation-Level Context – Goes beyond isolated keywords; it evaluates timing, tone shifts, and turn-taking—exactly what recent text-analysis studies recommend.✓ Clinical Benchmarks – Recovery drills map to outcomes used in peer-review trials (lower rumination, reduced attachment anxiety, mood lift).
Evidence-based insights, privacy-first processing, and a personalized action plan—so you move from confusion to clarity in minutes.
Privacy You Can Trust
End-to-End Encryption
Every chat export is AES-256 encrypted in transit and at rest.Auto-Delete Policy
Your file and raw data is permanently erased 24 hours after your PDF is generated.Personal Info Anonymized
Full names, phone numbers and any identifying details are scrubbed before analysis—your story is private from the very first step.
Early User Feedback
“It felt like a therapist summarized our entire relationship - except it popped out in 15 minutes.”
— Jill S., 34“I finally saw the pattern behind our fights. Huge relief.”
— Mark T., 29“I spent so much time trying to understand and it was just too much. It really helped me make sense of it all.”
— Ava K., 27
Claim Your Free Relationship Report
Early Access Ends Soon
(Launch price: $20 per report)
Upload your chats today and get your personalized analysis 100% free.
Limited beta spots remain — once they're gone, reports will cost $20 each.
FAQ
| How do I export my texts? | Use iMazing or other third party software to export the full content of your message history. Android guides are linked in the upload e-mail. |
| Will you keep my messages? | No. Files are encrypted in transit, redacted for PII (personally identifyable information) and raw files are auto-deleted 24 hours after your PDF is generated. |
| How many free reports are available? | The first 50 early access user reports will be 100% free as we refine our analysis and report generation tools. |
| How much will it cost after launch? | Public launch price will be $20 per report. |
| When will I get my report? | We start onboarding and processing messages on June 1st, 2025. You'll receive a personal upload link, and your PDF will land in your inbox. |
| What if I'm still talking to my ex? | The report spots live patterns too. Export up to yesterday's messages and we'll show current triggers plus a recovery roadmap you can start today. |
| Is this a substitute for therapy? | No, Breakup Decoder is a self-help tool, not medical advice. Many users share the PDF with their therapist or relationship coach for deeper work. |
Thank you!
What happens next?
Check your inbox – Look for the “Verify your email for Breakup Decoder” message; if it’s missing, peek in Spam or Promotions.
Click the “Confirm my email” button – This locks in your account; the link works for 24 hours.
Receive upload instructions – A second mail titled “Upload your chat history — Step 2” arrives with a private link and export guide.
Upload your messages – Drag-and-drop your file; a green “Upload complete” checkmark means we’ve got it.
AI at work – Your PDF Relationship Report lands within ≈15 minutes; just reply if anything looks off.
Privacy Policy
Last updated: May 17 20251. Who we are
Breakup Decoder (“Company,” “we,” “our”) provides an AI-powered relationship-analysis service at breakupdecoder.com (the “Service”).
Contact: [email protected]2. Information we collect• Account data
— Email address
— (Optional) first name• Chat uploads
— Text conversations you voluntarily drag-and-drop (TXT / CSV / JSON)• Derived reports
— PDF and dashboard metrics generated from your chats• Marketing & usage data
— UTM tags, email-open events, ad clicks
— IP address, browser type, pages visited, cookie IDs---3. How we use your data
1. Generate your Relationship Report and 30-day roadmap.
2. Operate, secure, and improve the Service (bug fixes, system tuning without storing raw data).
3. Communicate – verification emails, product updates, early-access surveys.---4. Legal bases / Notice of collection
* Contract – needed to deliver the report you request.
* Legitimate interest – analytics, fraud detection, product improvement.
* Consent – marketing emails, cookies.
* Legal obligation – compliance with law-enforcement or tax rules.---5. Retention & deletion
* Chat uploads – Raw Data Auto-deleted 24 hours after your PDF is generated.
* Derived analysis and reports – Stored (encrypted) for up to 12 months so you can re-download; deleted on request.
* Account & marketing data – Retained until you delete your account or 24 months of inactivity.---6. Third-party processors
We never sell personal data. We rely on vetted service providers such as:
— Amazon Web Services (cloud hosting, USA)
— MailChimp (marketing email, USA)
— Google Analytics (cookie-free analytics, EU)
— Stripe (payments after launch, USA)---7. International transfers
Data is stored in the United States.---8. Security measures
* TLS 1.2+ encryption in transit
* AES-256 encryption at rest
* Redaction – full names, numbers, and PII stripped before analysis.
Terms of Service
Last updated: May 17 2025> Important – By accessing or using Breakup Decoder you agree to these Terms.
> If you do not agree, do not use the Service.---## 1. Definitions
* “Service” – the breakupdecoder.com website, web app, and related emails.
* “Report” – the PDF and dashboard generated from your uploaded chats.
* “User,” “you,” “your” – a person who accesses the Service.
* “We,” “us,” “Company” – Breakup Decoder LLC.---## 2. Eligibility
* The Service is intended only for U.S. residents aged 18 or older.
* By using the Service you confirm you meet this requirement.---## 3. Account & Verification
* You must provide a valid email and complete verification.
* You are responsible for activity under your account.---## 4. User Content
* You own the chat messages you upload.
* You grant us a limited, revocable license to process that content solely to generate your Report and operate the Service.
* We auto-delete raw uploads within 24 hours after your Report is created.---## 5. License to You
* We grant you a personal, non-exclusive, non-transferable license to view, download, and print your Report for personal use.
* You may share the Report with your therapist or partner but may not resell it.---## 6. Acceptable Use
You agree not to:
1. Upload content you do not have the right to share.
2. Use the Service to harass, stalk, or defame anyone.
3. Attempt to reverse-engineer or disrupt the Service.
4. Use automated scripts or scrape the Service.---## 7. No Therapy or Medical Advice
* Breakup Decoder provides self-help information, not medical or mental-health treatment.
* Always seek the advice of a qualified professional for mental-health concerns.---## 8. Beta / Early-Access Disclaimer
* The Service is offered free during Early Access (private beta).
* Functionality may change, break, or be withdrawn without notice.
* After public launch, each Report will cost $20 (subject to change).---## 9. Payment & Refunds (post-launch)
* Fees are charged per Report at the posted price plus any sales tax.
* All sales are final; however, if we fail to deliver your Report you may request a full refund within 7 days.---## 10. Termination
* You may stop using the Service at any time.
* We may suspend or terminate your account for violation of these Terms.
* Upon termination we may delete your data except where retention is required by law.---## 11. Disclaimers
* The Service is provided “as is” and “as available.”
* We disclaim all warranties, including fitness for a particular*